Rather than concluding that children make parents either happy or miserable, Senior suggests we need to redefine happiness
平常的讨论局限于利弊之争(中国人写文章的时候很容易作出利大于弊或者弊大于利的大讨论，似乎所有的利弊都可以衡量一样)，这次人们没有这么做，逐渐变得客观理性的人们觉得我们应该重新开始考虑问题的根源。Rather than following the traditional debate upon the advantages and disvantages upon taking the train(也可以用pros and cons)，people with greater ration tend to suggest that we need to reconsider the root of all these problems.
instead of thinking of it as something that can be measured by moment-to-moment joy, we should consider being happy as a past-tense condition
如果高铁一出故障大家都不坐高铁了，那和谁会呛到，人们就不喝水了?我们最常见的问题就是当我们拥有解决方法A的时候，我们总会说，因为它会带来B，所以它不好。我就奇怪了，解决方法A生下来就不是为了解决问题B的医学全在,线www.med126.com，它最多用来解决问题A，为什么非要它如此完美后，大家才能接受呢，如果出现了问题B，而解决方案A又是必须实行的，那我们就做一个解决方法B来解决问题B好了。旧问题解决了，新问题自然会出来，但是因为新问题会出来而放弃解决旧问题，我们什么也做不了。所以，不要把任何一种全新的交通工具定义为提供完美旅程的渠道，我们要考虑的是如何可以让它变得更好。Instead of thinking of the newly built train as something that can provided us with perfection, we should consider making it a step closer to betterment.
Even though the day-to-day experience of raising kids can be soul-crushingly hard, Senior writes that “the very things that in the moment dampen our moods can later be sources of intense gratification and delight.
即使某个高铁故障让人心惊胆寒，问题的关键也绝对不是停止高铁项目，而充其量是增强质量检测和控制。Even though the vivid experience of taking the high speed train can be soul-crushingly unpleasant, the very things that in the moment call for our serious discussion should be the quallity control, rather than the prohibition of the entire programme.
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上课的方法是，大家在学习了新的东西后，宏观上可以随便挑选考研真题或者任何预测题目来进行验证，微观上可以通过报数字的方式，随机选择指定句型，表达相关的含义和内容。但是，无数次课堂尝试证明，很多同学很难就一个问题发表出中文的观点，成句成篇自然是非常煎熬的过程。希望大家好好按照我第一节课讲过的方法www.med126.com，通过流水线搭建自己的思想结构，尽快地熟悉作文入手的基本套路。再出今天的题目之前，我再次强调“像我者死，学我者生”这句古训，翻译过来的意思就是，用模板者死，用模式者生。今天的题目是“乐观与悲观”，大家可以试试看。
